Building Hope in the Community Through Community Health Workers

How Children’s Institute’s Community Public Health Workers, Emiliana Gallardo and Alejandra Gonzalez-Rivas, Made a Difference for Laura Sandoval

In a moment of despair, Laura Sandoval found herself living in her car with her three grandchildren after being evicted from her home. But with the intervention of two compassionate Community Health Workers, Emiliana Gallardo and Alejandra Gonzalez-Rivas, her story took a turn for the better.

Laura first learned about the Community Public Health Team (CPHT) when a team member knocked on her door during outreach efforts. Despite her overwhelming circumstances, she found hope in their offer to help. She recalls how she broke down during her first interaction with the team, releasing emotions she had held back for too long. This emotional release marked the beginning of her journey toward stability and healing.

Addressing both immediate needs and long-term challenges

The CPHT provided Laura with critical support, connecting her to resources she desperately needed. They helped her secure financial assistance for rent and deposits, preventing her from falling deeper into homelessness. They also arranged therapy sessions, offering her emotional relief and mental health support during an extremely trying time. For Laura, this assistance transformed her life. Her story is one of resilience and the impact of thoughtful, community-centered care. Emiliana and Alejandra provided not only practical help but also emotional support, treating Laura and her family with dignity and respect. “They were like my guardian angels,” Laura said, reflecting on their timely intervention.

Through referrals to various organizations, Laura gained access to furniture, essential household items like a microwave and air conditioning, and ongoing care management through Enhanced Care Management (ECM). These resources allowed her to create a stable and nurturing environment for her grandchildren. Her journey underscores the importance of programs like CPHT in bridging gaps for underserved communities. By addressing both immediate needs and long-term challenges, Emiliana and Alejandra enabled Laura to move forward with confidence. Today, Laura is settled in her new home, and she expresses profound gratitude for the team’s unwavering support.

Laura’s story serves as a testament to the power of community health initiatives and the individuals who dedicate themselves to creating positive change. Emiliana and Alejandra’s efforts not only transformed one life but also set an example of what compassionate care can achieve.

Interview by: James K Miller Jr., Department of Public Health

 

Construyendo Esperanza en la Comunidad

En un momento de desesperaciĂłn, Laura Sandoval vivĂ­a en su automĂłvil con sus tres nietos tras ser desalojada de su hogar. Sin embargo, gracias a la intervenciĂłn de dos trabajadoras comunitarias de salud compasivas, Emiliana Gallardo y Alejandra Gonzalez-Rivas, su historia dio un giro hacia algo mejor.

Laura conoció al Equipo Comunitario de Salud Pública (CPHT, por sus siglas en inglés) cuando una integrante del equipo tocó a su puerta durante labores de alcance comunitario. A pesar de sus circunstancias abrumadoras, encontró esperanza en su oferta de ayuda. Recuerda cómo rompió en llanto durante su primera interacción con el equipo, liberando emociones que había reprimido durante mucho tiempo. Este momento marcó el comienzo de su camino hacia la estabilidad y la recuperación.

El CPHT brindó a Laura el apoyo crítico que necesitaba desesperadamente. La ayudaron a obtener asistencia financiera para el alquiler y los depósitos, evitando que cayera aún más en la falta de vivienda. También organizaron sesiones de terapia que le ofrecieron alivio emocional y apoyo para su salud mental en un momento extremadamente difícil. Para Laura, esta ayuda transformó su vida.

Su historia es de resiliencia y del impacto del cuidado comunitario centrado en las personas. Emiliana y Alejandra no solo ofrecieron ayuda práctica, sino también apoyo emocional, tratando a Laura y su familia con dignidad y respeto. “Fueron como mis ángeles guardianes”, dijo Laura al reflexionar sobre su oportuna intervención.

A través de referencias a varias organizaciones, Laura accedió a muebles, artículos esenciales para el hogar como un microondas y aire acondicionado, y manejo de cuidado continuo a través del programa ECM (Enhanced Care Management). Estos recursos le permitieron crear un entorno estable y acogedor para sus nietos.

Su historia destaca la importancia de programas como CPHT para cerrar brechas en comunidades desatendidas. Al abordar tanto las necesidades inmediatas como los desafíos a largo plazo, Emiliana y Alejandra ayudaron a Laura a avanzar con confianza. Hoy, Laura está establecida en su nuevo hogar y expresa una profunda gratitud por el apoyo constante del equipo.

La historia de Laura es un testimonio del poder de las iniciativas de salud comunitaria y de las personas que se dedican a crear un cambio positivo. Los esfuerzos de Emiliana y Alejandra no solo transformaron una vida, sino que también establecieron un ejemplo de lo que puede lograr el cuidado compasivo.

James K Miller Jr., Department of Public Health

Children’s Institute’s Resource Guide for Immigrants

Children’s Institute is committed to ensuring that all our community —regardless of immigration status—have access to the essential resources, guidance, safety, and support they need during these challenging times. In moments of fear and uncertainty, we stand firmly with our immigrant children, families, and neighbors, and our commitment to them remains steadfast.

We will continue providing mental health services, early childhood programs, and health navigation support to all those in need. In addition, we will share timely updates, resources, and announcements on our website and other platforms to support immigrant families in our programs. Please be sure to check for updates regularly.

Click links below for resources and information.

Preparedness:

Know Your Rights:

Legal Assistance:

Mental Health:

Additional Resources:

Community Resources & Support for L.A. Wildfire Victims

Dear community,

We hope you and your loved ones are staying safe during these challenging times as our hearts are heavy for each Angeleno who has been impacted by the devastating wildfires. We are truly at a loss for words to describe the pain and suffering so many of us Angelenos are facing and while we realize that repairing and rebuilding will take a long time, we hope to continue supporting our friends and communities along the way.

Please stay safe and refer to this list of resources to be informed, to obtain the help you and your loved ones need as well as to help those around you. Let’s be LA Strong.

Tax Extension for Wildfire Victims:

The IRS and the State of California will provide a tax extension for individuals and businesses affected by the devastating wildfires. For more information on this announcement, please read here.

Physical Safety & Needs:

Comprehensive List of Resources – Mutual Aid

List of Food Pantries across LA County

Emotional & Mental Health Needs:

988 Lifeline – Suicide Hotline

Mental Health Resources for Natural Disasters – LACDMH

Dial 1-800-985-5990 – Disaster Distress Hotline

Tips for Survivors Stress (English & Spanish) – SAMHSA

Tips for Talking to Children After a Traumatic Event (English & Spanish) – SAMHSA

Tips for Families of Disaster Responders – SAMHSA

Children & Recovery from Wildfires – Burn Foundation

Financial Resources:

Federal Emergency Management Agency – FEMA

Inclusive Action – an emergency fund for outdoor workers (including street vendors, landscapers and recyclers affected by the wildfires)

Motion Picture & Television Fund – provides financial assistance to working and retired members of the entertainment community.

Musicares – providing financial assistance to members of the music community.

Air Quality Resources:

What is Mesothelioma? – Asbestos.com

Wildfires May Spread Asbestos – Asbestos.com

70% Discount Off Medical-Grade Air Purifiers (limited time offer) – Air Doctor (email enterprise@idealliving.com)

Information to stay up to date:

The Benefit Navigator – Imagine LA

Wildfire Information – NAMI California

Stay Informed! – LA Fire Department

Current Emergency Incidents – Cal Fire

Wildfire Preparedness Guide – Cal Fire

Prepare Your “Go Bag” – Cal Fire

If you are in a place to help others, please consider volunteering with the following organizations:

Volunteer with the Dream Center of Los Angeles

Volunteer for the L.A. Wildfires – L.A. Works

Volunteer with the Red Cross

 

Estimada comunidad,

Esperamos que ustedes y sus seres queridos se mantengan a salvo durante estos tiempos difíciles, mientras nuestros corazones están apesadumbrados por cada angelino que se ha visto afectado por los devastadores incendios forestales. Realmente no tenemos palabras para describir el dolor y sufrimiento que muchos de nosotros los angelinos estamos enfrentando y, aunque sabemos que la reparación y reconstrucción llevarán mucho tiempo, esperamos seguir apoyando a nuestros amigos y nuestras comunidades a lo largo del camino.

Por favor, manténganse a salvo, y consulten esta lista de recursos para estar informados, obtener la ayuda que ustedes y sus seres queridos necesiten, y ayudar a aquellos que los rodean. Seamos tan fuertes como LA Strong.

PrĂłrroga del plazo para declarar los impuestos para las vĂ­ctimas de los incendios forestales:

El Servicio de Impuestos Internos y el estado de California dispondrán una prórroga del plazo para declarar los impuestos para las personas y empresas afectadas por los devastadores incendios forestales. Para obtener más información sobre este anuncio, por favor, lean aquí.

Seguridad y necesidades fĂ­sicas:

Lista completa de recursos – Mutual Aid

Lista de bancos de alimentos del condado de Los Angeles

Necesidades de salud emocional y mental:

LĂ­nea 988 de PrevenciĂłn del Suicidio y Crisis – LĂ­nea directa de prevenciĂłn del suicidio

Recursos de salud mental en caso de desastres naturales -LACDMH

Llame al 1-800-985-5990 – LĂ­nea directa de socorro en caso de desastre

Consejos para sobrevivientes de un desastre u otro evento traumático – SAMHSA

Consejos para las familias del personal de respuesta a desastres que regresa a casa – SAMHSA

Recursos econĂłmicos:

Agencia Federal para el Manejo de Emergencias – FEMA

Inclusive Action – Un fondo de emergencia para los trabajadores al aire libre (incluyendo los vendedores ambulantes, jardineros y recicladores afectados por los incendios forestales)

Fondo de Cine y TelevisiĂłn – Proporciona asistencia econĂłmica a los miembros activos y jubilados de la comunidad del entretenimiento.

Musicares – Proporciona asistencia económica a los miembros de la comunidad musical.

InformaciĂłn para mantenerse al dĂ­a:

The Benefit Navigator – Imagine LA

InformaciĂłn sobre los incendios forestales – NAMI California

Stay Informed! – Departamento de Bomberos de Los Angeles (LAFD)

Incidentes actuales de emergencia – Cal Fire

GuĂ­a de preparaciĂłn para los incendios forestales – Cal Fire

Prepare su “bolsa de emergencia” – Cal Fire

Si usted está en condiciones de ayudar a otros, por favor, considere ofrecerse como voluntario para las siguientes organizaciones:

Ofrézcase como voluntario para Dream Center of Los Angeles

OfrĂ©zcase como voluntario para L.A. Wildfires – L.A. Works

Ofrézcase como voluntario para la Cruz Roja

A Note of Gratitude from Martine – 6th Annual Cape & Gown Gala

Thanks to the generosity of our Children’s Institute donors, we raised over $820,000 for our children, families and communities last night.

Far beyond dollars, though, these donations represent the hope, love and commitment we share for the 30,000 children and families across Los Angeles served by CII each year. Your contributions create opportunities, thriving communities and healthy futures for generations to come.

At last night’s gala, we honored four incredible champions:

  • TIM DISNEY, introduced by President of CalArts, Ravi Rajan, received the Children’s Champion Award for his decades of unwavering advocacy for children and families.
  • ERIN WESTERMAN, introduced by actress, singer and producer, Naomi Scott, accepted the Children’s Champion Award for her support of youth mentorship programs and the health and wellbeing of pregnant and parenting mothers.
  • DEPUTY CHIEF EMADA TINGIRIDES & PHILLIP TINGIRIDES, introduced by CII Trustee, Gena Brooks, received the Community Champion Award for their groundbreaking approach to community-based policing.

Emcee and actor/comedian, Lil Rel Howery brought his signature humor to the evening. We were inspired by Tondalia Chandler, who underscored the critical importance of CII’s services to her family; you can read her story here. Additionally, here are two heartwarming videos that were shared last night: Project Fatherhood and Emotional Wellbeing.

The evening opened with a performance by the CalArts ensemble, Sirena and featured a live auction hosted by Emmy-winning broadcaster Liam Mayclem. For a recap of the event, check out our social media post here.

On behalf of everyone at Children’s Institute, we extend our deepest gratitude to all who sponsored, supported and participated in our gala. Your generosity truly makes a difference in the lives of the children and families we serve and in communities across Los Angeles.

With deep gratitude,

Martine Singer

 

Thank you to our gala supporters:
Dragonfly Therapeutics, Inc., Bill & Maura Haney, Johnny Carson Foundation, Susan Disney Lord, Roy P. Disney & Abigail Disney, O’Melveny & Meyers, Lauren & Chuck Diamond, Megan Smith & Garrett Doherty, Cindy & Alan Horn, Andrea & Glenn Sonnenberg, Bel Air Investment Advisors, Burnham Benefits, Cal Arts, Gallagher, HUB International, KPMG, Les Amies, Lionsgate, PwC, UnitedHealthcare, Warner Bros. Television, Wells Fargo, Steven Gomez, Dr. Jenny Williams & Joan Henehan, Sally & Paul R. Kanin, Dr. Jennifer Linehan Kutrieh & Tarek Kutrieh, Jamie Alter Lynton & Michael Lynton, Carole & Barry Patmore and Family, Gelila Assefa Puck, R&S Kayne Foundation, Jessica Harper & Tom Rothman, Maria Seferian, Slusser Ranch Vineyards, The Walt Disney Company, The W. M. Keck Foundation, Bills & Stoll, LLP, Bocarsly Emden Cowan Esmail & Arndt LLP, Bogaard Group International, John & Louise Bryson, Canterbury Consulting, Cedars-Sinai, City National Bank, Creative Artists Agency, Stella Hall & Jim Fordyce, Beth & Sunil Gunderia, Monica Wyatt & Mark Horowitz, Kingdom Story Company, The Provost Family, Salesforce, Shamrock Capital Advisors, Moira & Rajath Shourie, Susan Steinhauser, David & Paula Agnew, Amazon Studios, Angeleno Group, Philippe Browning, Katherine & Bill Burford, Camino Nuevo Charter Academy & Pueblo Nuevo Education and Development Group, Beth Grant & Michael Chieffo, DSH // architecture and Chava Danielson & Eric Haas, The Drake Family, Cliff Einstein, GHJ, Gang, Tyre, Ramer, Brown & Passman, Inc., Tracey Gluck, The Goetzman Group, Ilene & Stanley Gold, Health Net, LLC, Suzanne & David Johnson, Nathan Kahane, David Kuhn, Aevitas Creative Management, Roy Lee at Vertigo Entertainment, Levinson Arshonsky Kurtz & Komsky, LLP, Liz Hirsh Naftali, Roger Allers & Genaro Pereira, Ric Whitney & Tina Perry-Whitney, Point Grey Pictures, Carolyn Powers, Revolution Office, Negar & Ariff Sidi, Jason & Cindy Spitz, Mary Rohlich & Clay Tweel, UCLA Extension, The United Plankton Charitable Trust and WME.

Get to Know Your Reporter: Alina Tugend, The New York Times

“Get to Know Your Reporter” is a series of interviews we’re having with journalists covering topics that are both timely and relevant to our audiences. Our aim is to advocate for and highlight the issues & policies that affect the children and families we serve, and one way is by providing information directly from experts in the field.

This month, we had the privilege of meeting with Alina Tugend, a freelance journalist from The New York Times.

Hello Alina – thank you for making time to meet and share with us. Can you please start of by taking time to meet with us. Let’s start off by getting to know you a little better.

I’m a life-long journalist, reporting on a variety of topics – from the environment to education and reporting over the years from California, Rhode Island, Washington DC, New York and the United Kingdom. For the past 24 years, I’ve been a freelance journalist for numerous national publications, including The New York Times, The Washington Post, The Chronicle of Higher Education and Kiplinger Retirement Report.  I have also written several explainers for the Education Writers Association and currently much of my work is focused on education, both K-12 and higher education.

From 2005-2015 I wrote the biweekly, “Shortcuts,” column for The New York Times business section. I’m also the author of the book “Better by Mistake: The Unexpected Benefits of Being Wrong,” and one of 25 women featured in the book “Mistakes I made at Work: 25 Influential Women Reflect on What They Got Out of Getting it Wrong.”

What motivates you as a journalist?

I love both reporting and writing. Journalism allows me to talk to a wide variety of people about so many different topics – even ones that sound dull usually end up being interesting in some way.  And it’s often a challenge to fit that information together in a relatively small space in a way that is (hopefully) understandable, interesting and makes people consider an idea or concept in a way they haven’t before. I believe journalism, done thoughtfully and rigorously, is incredibly important in creating an engaged and educated citizenry – which, of course, is essential to a democracy.

It took me a long time to find a place to publish, report and write. I learned a lot while in the process, including how to better write on complicated and delicate issues that involve race and class, as education so often does. As an editor on a project once told me, it’s important not to try to smooth over contradictions, but write into the complexity. That means giving readers a real understanding of the possible ambiguity of an issue without simply falling into “on the one hand, on the other hand.”

What story/project are you the proudest of working on and why?

I would like to write some longer, in-depth stories, particularly on what good research has shown works successfully in helping students thrive in K-12 education.

 

See below for articles published by Alina:

Community Schools Become More Popular With Lessons Learned From the Pandemic

Art Can Fight Climate Change in More Ways Than One

At This Museum Sixth Graders Learn Lessons in Democracy

Upgraded Museums Add New Value at Colleges and Universities

Children’s Institute Helped Me Heal & My Family Thrive

Dear Children’s Institute,

My name is Tondalia and when I was a little girl, I always knew I wanted to help people. If telling my story about how Children’s Institute changed my life helps more parents get the support they need, I will have accomplished a lifelong dream.

I went through some really challenging times as a kid and my past traumas had created a lot of anger within me. After starting therapy at 11 years old, I went from a shut-down teen to someone who understood that it was okay to seek help, to release emotions and to express myself in healthier ways.

So when my daughter started struggling with substance use, I dedicated the next 17 years of my life to fighting for my four grandchildren and making sure they had the love and care they needed to heal. I reached out to my old therapist for help and she connected me to Children’s Institute.

When I first called Children’s Institute, it just so happened that a gentleman named Carl, who had helped my eldest grandson when he first went into foster care, answered the phone. I knew then that this was the right place for my family. All four grandchildren received services from Children’s Institute and so did I.

Children’s Institute is a safe place for me. From the receptionist at the front desk, my therapist to the staff linking me to additional resources such as transportation and utility bill payment assistance, the whole experience has put me at ease. All my life, I have been responsible for taking care of others. Children’s Institute was here to take care of me.

I now have the mental space to think about my future and how I would like to pursue a career where I can help other parents understand the power of therapy.

When my grandchildren first started counseling, they were closed up, like rose petals when you can’t see inside. Now they have blossomed into the young people they deserve to be because they have the resources they need to thrive. I’m proud of the progress we’ve all made and the opportunity to grow together.

Please consider giving a generous gift to Children’s Institute this holiday season, so that more families like mine can get the support they need to flourish.

Sincerely,

Tondalia Chandler

Get to Know Your Reporter: Ana B. Ibarra, Health Reporter at CalMatters

“Get to Know Your Reporter” is a series of interviews we’re having with journalists covering topics that are both timely and relevant to our audiences. Our aim is to advocate for and highlight the issues & policies that affect the children and families we serve, and one way is by providing information directly from experts in the field.

This month, we had the privilege of meeting with Ana B. Ibarra, a health reporter at CalMatters.

Hello Ana and thank you for taking time to meet with us. Let’s start off by getting to know you a little better.

I grew up in the San Gabriel Valley, specifically in Rosemead, California, as the daughter of Mexican and Salvadoran immigrants. My introduction to journalism was in high school, where I joined a class and helped with the school newspaper, The Panther’s Tale. Journalism forced me out of my comfort zone to connect with people I might never have encountered otherwise. 

Ten years after starting my career, I consider myself lucky to still be a reporter. It’s challenging yet it gives me the opportunity to meet people throughout the community, allowing me to understand the issues that affect us all. I get to speak with those who have the power to make policy and changes, as well as the people impacted by those decisions.

What drives me is my commitment to keeping people informed and making news more accessible. I started my journalism career covering health and I’m still at it today. It’s a field that impacts everyone in one way or another and remains a strong area of interest for me.

I began my journey with the Merced Sun-Star then moved on to Kaiser Health News, part of the Kaiser Family Foundation (KFF), before landing my current role at CalMatters. I look forward to continuing this work, connecting with people from all walks of life and amplifying the stories that matter.

How has the transition from Sacramento to Los Angeles been for you as a reporter?

I’ve had the opportunity to report from different places across California – from the San Joaquin Valley, Sacramento and now to my hometown of Los Angeles. Each transition has offered unique perspectives and insights. In Sacramento, I covered the Capitol and various government agencies, translating decisions made by leaders and lawmakers into stories that reached the public. My goal was to make these decisions at the top accessible and relevant to the communities they directly impact.

Now I work outside of Sacramento, focusing on issues people deal with in their communities. I’m tracking things from health care concerns to economic challenges that might go unnoticed yet impact everyday lives. Often, these stories bring fresh insight to decision-makers in Sacramento, reinforcing how community-level issues need representation at the state level.

At CalMatters, the heart of what we do is rooted in policy, always keeping a close watch on Sacramento’s decisions. But it’s equally important for us to investigate how these policies play out on the ground and observe how policies impact different cities, from Bakersfield to Los Angeles, highlighting how unique each community’s challenges are.

Ultimately, our reporting is about bridging that gap, showing how policy decisions in Sacramento impact the lives of people across California.

We’ve heard the news & media being affected quite a bit these days. Have you noticed any major trends or changes in the media landscape? And if so, what are you noticing and how are you pivoting?

In my 10 years in journalism, I’ve seen newsrooms, especially local ones, shrink to become skeletons of what they used to be. That means there are fewer eyes and stories coming out of these communities. This challenge has also resulted in more collaboration between newsrooms and reporters. At CalMatters, we partner with many local outlets to expand access to important news across California.

As news consumption evolves, we’re having to adapt too, reaching readers through print, radio, TV, newsletters and even TikTok. At the same time, we’re working to combat misinformation and build trust. This adaptability is essential, as accurate, accessible news is more critical than ever.

Can you share about your recent accomplishments and highlights?

I’ve learned that everyone interacts with the healthcare system in some way, and it can be a very complicated system to navigate. When someone reaches out to say my reporting has helped them or their family, it’s the ultimate compliment and achievement. 

This year, my health team took on a major project: investigating maternity ward closures across California. It required months of work, from gathering data, conducting interviews, and traveling across the state, including to Imperial County, where we spoke with people affected by these closures. The project was a labor of heart and hard work and we’ve been working on that since last year and up until this year. Here is the investigation that led to Governor Newsom signing a law to create more transparency around maternity ward closures:  Gov. Newsom signs law to slow closures.

What a powerful article with so much impact! Thank you for reporting on such critical issues. For our final question, what is a message you’d like to convey with your readers? Do you have any tips on how people can reach the media?

Navigating the healthcare system can be difficult. If you’re struggling to find the information you need, don’t be shy to reach out to journalists. Often the questions you have are shared by others. Readers sometimes contact me for help accessing resources, and even if I don’t have the answer, I can connect them with someone who does. When readers share their questions and concerns, it also helps us understand the areas where the public may need more information.

 

See below for recent articles published by Ana:

Californians are knocking on doors in 2024 swing states

After CalMatters investigation, Gov Newsom signs law to slow maternity ward closures

Maternal deaths: New CA plan centers on moms’ overall health

 

CalMatters is a nonpartisan and nonprofit news organization bringing Californians stories that probe, explain and explore solutions to quality of life issues while holding our leaders accountable. We are the only journalism outlet dedicated to covering America’s biggest state, 39 million Californians and the world’s fifth largest economy. Our mission is to improve California’s democracy by making its government more transparent and accountable and giving Californians the information they need to understand and engage with that government.

Ana reports from a health fair in Calexico (Imperial County). Photo credit: Adriana Heldiz, CalMatters.

Finding Strength Through Community: A Client’s Journey from Fear to Hope

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. In order to remove the shame, stigma and silence often associated with domestic violence, we opted to share a client’s story of strength & survival. As this client mustered up the courage to share her story, her hope is that in doing so, it gives others the courage to share their stories and heal in the process.

When I look back on my life, it’s hard to believe how much has changed in such a short time. Not long ago, I was trapped in a cycle of fear and abuse, unable to see a way out – not even really understanding what I was experiencing was abuse. Today, I stand with a renewed sense of hope, strength and a determination to help others find their own path to freedom & safety.

My story began, like many others, one of excitement. I was in a relationship with someone I loved and when we found out we were expecting a child, we took the next step and moved in together. But it was then that the cracks started to show. My partner’s behavior became increasingly aggressive, something I initially blamed on the daily stresses of life, especially after our child was born. My partner struggled with addiction and while there were moments of peace, they were momentary.

The arrival of the COVID-19 pandemic only worsened the situation. The isolation, job loss and the impacts on mental health associated with the pandemic took a toll on both of us which caused him to spiral and quickly. His habit of drinking returned aggressively, strangers from the street would frequently show up at our doorstep and the environment became dangerously unpredictable. On top of it all, his abusive behavior had intensified.

Despite my best efforts to keep my child safe and hold our young family together, the situation reached a breaking point. One night, after a particularly violent outburst from my partner where he threw me against a wall, my partner unexpectedly kicked us out of the home.

Thankfully, my parents took me and my child in but the cycle of abuse from my partner continued for another two years. There were periods where he seemed to get better, only for his abusive behavior to intensify. It wasn’t until one night, after finding him passed out and covered in blood in the kitchen, that I finally saw the reality of the situation. I tried to handle the situation myself but as usual, I was met with his aggression – to the point that my partner nearly ended my life in that moment. He wasn’t just hurting himself; he was endangering my life and my child’s life. When he woke up and tried to end my life, I knew we had to escape for good.

Filing a police report brought Child Protective Services (CPS) into my life and through them, I was connected to Children’s Institute. My goal was to find counseling for my child, who had witnessed far more than any three-year-old should ever have to see but what I found at Children’s Institute was more than just help for him – it was a lifeline for the both of us.

At first, I was hesitant to accept the help offered. I had always been the kind of person who believed I could handle things on my own, but this time was different. I was exhausted, scared and felt utterly defeated. I took a leap of faith and enrolled in the domestic violence and parenting classes, not knowing just how transformative this decision would be.

During the group session at Children’s Institute, I was connected to other people who understood my pain in a way I had never experienced. For the first time, I learned that the things I had been through weren’t just part of life – they were signs of abuse. This realization was both shocking and liberating. And what was key for me was that I wasn’t alone and that this wasn’t my fault. Prior to this, I blamed myself for the abuse I experienced. Somehow, I told myself that I put myself in these situations.

The support I received at Children’s Institute allowed me to start rebuilding my life. I learned about self-care – something I had never considered important before – and the importance of setting boundaries. These weren’t just abstract concepts; they were tools that helped me protect myself and my child from ever falling back into the cycle of abuse.

Additionally, it was through my therapy sessions that I was encouraged to find a community of friends outside of therapy. So, with some courage, I started getting involved in a church. That’s where, for the first time, I found a community of people & friends who embraced and understood me. The love and acceptance that my child and I felt were incredible. Before getting therapy and becoming involved in my church, I was never able to connect with others and form friendships. I even got to throw a friend their baby shower – and for me, I felt like that was a huge success.

Today, I am a different person. I’ve built a strong support system that I can rely on. I have the support system through my church and through it, I have friends who accept and love me and my child unconditionally. I’ve learned how to find joy in life’s little things. The constant state of fear has been lifted off my shoulders and replaced by a newfound sense of peace and purpose.

But my journey isn’t just about surviving – it’s about thriving. I want to share my story because I know there are others out there who are afraid and feel trapped. I want them to know that there is hope for them and that there are people and organizations like Children’s Institute who can help them find their way out of the darkness.

I am forever grateful for the support I received, and I wish I could give back more. I know that one way of giving back is through sharing my story. I hope that my story can be a light for someone else.

*Client’s name has been omitted for anonymity.

 

For more information & resources on domestic violence, please see below:

Community Spotlight: Twinspire

We recently opened the doors of our Otis Booth campus, in the heart of Historic Filipinotown, to welcome our community partner organizations for a much-anticipated roundtable discussion. Hosted by our Community Relations team, this marked the first community roundtable at Otis Booth since the onset of the pandemic, with partners eager to come together and engage in person.

“There’s been a hunger to reimagine the collaborative spaces we enjoyed pre-pandemic—to welcome back community partners, old and new. It reminded us that there is so much power in simply sharing space, breaking bread, in discussing common experiences and opportunities for partnership in service to families. This was an exciting first step,” says Deborah Riddle, the Senior Community Relations Specialist at Children’s Institute.

The gathering reflected our North Star, which centers on four pillars: educational success, emotional well-being, economic mobility and lifelong health. These pillars ground us as we work in underserved communities and guide us in the relationships we build. And we know that our work cannot be done alone. True impact is achieved through collaboration, which is why we’re so proud of the strategic partnerships we’ve developed with organizations like Wesley Health, Saban Clinic, P.S. Arts and Twinspire.

As we sat down to discuss current challenges, opportunities and to better understand community needs, one thing was clear: while our missions aligned, each of the organizations brought a unique set of strengths and areas for growth to the table. This diversity in experience reinforced our belief that we are better together.

Among the voices at the table was Twinspire, an organization that has become near and dear to us. Not only are they our new partners, but they’ve also recently moved into our campus. Twinspire’s work is transformative, as they advocate for marginalized young adults and foster youth, equipping them with financial literacy and life skills. By empowering their youth to open doors to educational and career opportunities, they break down barriers and elevate voices that often go unheard.

What stands out most about Twinspire’s approach is their intentionality behind the relationships they build with their youth. Not an easy task. The leaders of the organization, often take the first step to connect with the youth on a deeper level by sharing in their own personal experiences as Black men who have navigated similar struggles. Angelo Agunae, Twinspire’s Program Director, shared, “I love the youth we serve, and I relate to them. I relate to their struggles, and I believe it is our duty to invest in youth and kids because when we do that, they become the people they’re supposed to be.”

Their shared experiences form the foundation of trust, allowing vulnerable stories to be told, real emotions to be felt and healing to begin. This relationship-building is just the first step to making their programs so successful and resonant, in topics including financial literacy, career development, social-emotional learning and social justice.

Tae Thompson, Twinspire’s co-founder and Executive Director, eloquently framed it during our discussion. He says, “It’s not about seeing individuals as independently sufficient but rather, as community sufficient.” This powerful mindset highlights the interconnectedness of our work, emphasizing that we all play a vital role in the development of the whole person within the larger community ecosystem.

We’re thrilled to continue our collaboration with Twinspire and as we embark on our new joint initiative supporting foster youth, LAUNCH, aimed at supporting system-involved youth, we can’t wait to share more about the impact we’ll create together. Stay tuned for exciting updates on this partnership!

Suicide Prevention Awareness – Trending Issues & Tips for Families with Youth

Suicide is a complex issue affecting countless families, making awareness essential for prevention. Our Director of Intensive Behavioral Health, Kelly Hwang, LMFT, shared her insights with L.A. Parent Magazine about how recent societal changes have impacted suicidal ideation, particularly among youth and wants to highlight two major influences including the pandemic and social media. While both issues are attributed to rising mental health concerns, they also provide opportunities for dialogue and support.

The Impact of the Pandemic
The pandemic has profoundly affected youth mental health, resulting in alarming increases in suicidal ideation and self-harm. A key driver of this crisis is social isolation including lockdowns which stripped youth of social interactions, leaving many feeling lonely and disconnected.

Additionally, the anxiety and uncertainty surrounding the pandemic shifted conversations about mortality into the forefront of young minds. Children, who may have previously been unaffected by death, were suddenly inundated with news about COVID-related hospitalizations and fatalities, heightening their anxiety and contributing to feelings of despair. Some even experienced the death of a family member as a result of COVID.

The pandemic, however, also sparked a cultural shift towards open discussions about mental health and wellness. The stigma that once silenced these conversations quickly began to dissipate, creating an environment where people felt more comfortable opening up about their struggles. While this openness may explain the uptick in reported rates of suicidal ideation, it also facilitates supportive dialogue.

The Role of Social Media
Social media serves as a double-edged sword for youth. On the negative side, it perpetuates unrealistic standards, leading to unhealthy comparisons and feelings of inadequacy. Social media users tend to showcase their “best sides,” which skews perceptions of reality and can exacerbate underlying anxiety and depression to certain users. Social media can also promote harmful behaviors in schools including bullying and harassment.

Additionally, easy access to content about suicide poses risks to youth. Despite these challenges, social media can be a source of information for mental health and suicide prevention. Online resources can be life-saving – including for parents, who can benefit
from increased awareness of warning signs and strategies to support their children.

Tips for Parents
If you’re a parent concerned about your child’s mental health, consider the following tips:

1) Recognize Depressive Symptoms
• Loss of Interest: If your child no longer engages in activities they once enjoyed.
• Loss of enjoyment: Notice this sign in activities and things previously enjoyed.
• Changes in Eating and Sleeping: Deviations in usual patterns should be noted.
• Preoccupation with Death: Frequent talk about death or suicidal thoughts should not be dismissed.
• Low Energy and Fatigue: Persistent low energy levels.
• Traumatic Exposure: Past traumas that may affect their mental health.

2) Encourage Open Dialogue
Engaging in conversations about mental health and suicide is crucial.
• Ask Directly: Ask if your child has thoughts of self-harm or suicide.
• Validate Their Feelings: Listen empathetically and acknowledge their emotions.
• Connect Them with Trusted Adults: Encourage seeking support from other family members, mentors or counselors.
• Consult a Mental Health Professional: If concerns escalate, don’t hesitate to involve a professional.

Resources
For additional support, organizations like Children’s Institute offer resources and counseling for qualifying families. For families under Medi-Cal with youth 0-21 years of age that are seeking resources, please see here.

Additional Resources:

Kelly Hwang, LMFT Director of Intensive Behavioral Health at Children’s Institute